EP: 224 How to be extraordinary

In this episode we discuss How To Be Extraordinary.

00:02:00 - Perception

Perception is everything. Yeah. 

KISMA

Those can be the days that you look back on two and you're like, dang, you know, I really handled that. 

NICK

I handled it. It was cool. Which leads us to the topic of extraordinary. I think it is someone who faces each and every day and makes it the best day. I think being extraordinary doesn't mean that you're, you know, it is extraordinary to climb Mount Everest. It is extraordinary to make a billion dollars or a hundred million or 10 million or whatever. Like there's so many things that we think are extraordinary. 

But in actuality, when we were talking about this episode, I think the realization came for us that when a person is their authentic, clean and clear self, that is extraordinary.

KISMA

00:04:00 Out Shine

And I honestly think, I honestly think that there's, there's beliefs built around that that say, well, it's not okay for you to out shine. You're not worthy of doing that. Who are you to, to really, you know, to shine that? Well, you're not, you know, you're nothing special, you know, like extra anything from whatever got programmed in there. I think those things kind of cover that up, but deep down, I really do think that people have a natural, a natural draw or a natural desire to really express themselves in an extraordinary way, extra express their nature, you know, their nature. 

NICK

To be true to their selves.

KISMA

00:07:00 - Following Your Own Path

So just to kind of make sure we're anchoring this in, because I think it, our version of extraordinary is yeah, you can move a mountain. Yeah. You can make millions of dollars. You can run a marathon every single day. It's when you really tap into your true self-expression and creativity, that extraordinary it's like that it's going to light up inside you, that you feel extraordinary because you're stepping out of every perceived box and limitation and you're taking your life and deciding for yourself, like we talked about in the last episode, there's an element of trust and you're living it. And when you look at that, someone who does that up against all the odds of what the world is telling us to do, or trying to get us to, you know, comply to, or be a, like following your own path outside of any box outside of anybody else's opinions, beliefs. That's extraordinary.

KISMA

00:11:30 - Just Drop It

Because then whatever you do, whoever you're being is way more authentic. You're just like the fierce guy to me, that's always the freedom point, right. Because I see when people don't make, you know, their big leaps or decisions or whatever, because they're, they're hedging their bets around what people are going to think or what if they fail or this or that. So just drop it. And that will allow you to not only feel, but really be extraordinarily authentic. 

KISMA

I agree. 

NICK

I sleep so much better at night. 

KISMA

Maybe not at first. 

NICK

Maybe not at first, but once it's dropped, man. Yeah, for sure. 

KISMA

Because there's a, there's a process to that. People ask me, well, how do you do that? How do you do you know, like, how do you do it is the wrong question to begin with.

NICK

00:16:00 - Be Impeccable With Your Word

What's one more that you would add in? 

KISMA

Well, as long as we're on the four agreements there, um, be impeccable with your word is always a really good one, but be impeccable with your word with yourself. 

NICK

I love that. I love that. That means that when you promise yourself, you're going to geek out, you're going to have fun. When you say I'm not going to care what anybody thinks or, you know, when you choose to do something like you're impeccable with your word, you, you do it for you. You stick with your word. 

KISMA

Yeah. 

NICK

That's amazing.

KISMA